25
Jun

Someone wants you to read this message

This is interesting…

I was initially planning to share with you about my day today, and as I was thinking thru things that I was about to write, suddenly I was reminded about a story that I heard about 2 years ago. A close friend of mine in my organization actually forward this story to me. And strangely, I don't know why I felt that I have to share this on my blog today.

 

So.. if you happen to read this blog by chance, probably this message is for you.

 

Carrot, Egg or Coffee Bean?

 

You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.
A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed that as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

 

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word.

 

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She then pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me, what do you see?"

 

"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

 

She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. She then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.

 

The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, Mother?" Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity — boiling water — but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
 

"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?"

 

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity? Do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

 

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?

 

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor of your life.

 

If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate to another level?

 

How do you handle adversity? Are you changed by your surroundings or do you bring life, flavor, to them?

 

ARE YOU A CARROT, AN EGG, OR A COFFEE BEAN?

~ Author Unknown ~

 

Do you believe that everything that happens in life, happens for a reason? Well, I do.

 

There is definitely a reason why I felt like posting this message today,
and definitely there is a reason why you were led to read this blog.

 

So, for whoever you are at wherever you are, I just want to leave you with this quote:
 

Happiness keeps you Sweet, Trials keep you Strong,

Sorrows keep you Human, Failures keep you Humble,

Success keeps you Glowing,

But only God Keeps You Going!

 

Take care and be strong !
 

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About Merry Riana

Merry Riana is a Millionaire Entrepreneur, Best-Selling Author and Motivational Speaker.In just a short period of 4 years after her graduation, Merry has earned more than S$1,000,000 through her business. This achievement is featured as an article titled ‘She’s made her first million at just age 26’, in The Straits Times on 26th January 2007. In October 2010, Merry was conferred the Great Women of Our Time Award. As an icon in the regional, financial, and educational communities Merry has broken down barriers to become one of the most admired and watched individuals in the media today. visit www.MerryRiana.org to read more about Merry Riana
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2 Responses to Someone wants you to read this message

  1. sila sombahangphe says:

    hello Merry,
    i found your info through Adam khoo facebook. i was reading through and found this page. Wow it is so true. I will keep this in mind. You have become my inspiration!

  2. Merry says:

    Hi Sila,

    Thank you for reading my blog, and thank you for connecting with me :)

    You can also added me in Facebook. http://www.facebook.com/merry.riana

    Take care ! :)

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