We all have an infinite capacity for loving.
Sometimes we get confused about loving, and we start thinking that we only have so much to go around. We start thinking in zero-sum terms. We believe that we only have so much love and if we give some away, we have that much less.
We start giving out our love like we pay the bills at the end of the month. We meet all our "love obligations," and we try to keep a little bit in savings, just in case of an emergency.
Controlled love is not loving. Obligatory love is not loving.
Love is something that flows out of our deep sense of loving ourselves. It is not possible to love another if we don't love ourselves.
When we love ourselves, there is no limits to the amount of love we can share. But also remember that loving can never be manufactured because we should, need to, or want to get something in return.
Love is an energy that is shared because we have it.
Me and the love of my life 
About Merry Riana
Merry Riana is a Millionaire Entrepreneur, Best-Selling Author and Motivational Speaker.In just a short period of 4 years after her graduation, Merry has earned more than S$1,000,000 through her business. This achievement is featured as an article titled ‘She’s made her first million at just age 26’, in The Straits Times on 26th January 2007. In October 2010, Merry was conferred the Great Women of Our Time Award. As an icon in the regional, financial, and educational communities Merry has broken down barriers to become one of the most admired and watched individuals in the media today.
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Nice couple!
I agree: Love Is Energy.
If our partner does not deserve to be loved, but we love him anyway, is it called obligatory love?
Come on, write a new post, Merry!
I wanted to leave comment for your latest post ‘Happy Women’s Day’, but it seems that the Comment function is not working?
Love is different from money. You can always give it away, but you’ll never run out of it.